You get an erection, you can still marry!

Previously marriage used to be a platform where two individuals would explore each other still loving and sharing lives. Agreed, it has its pros and cons but we have been spoon fed since ages that marriage is just an agreement to live under a roof, give birth to humans and love happens later.

It is wrong! Marriage is a beautiful thing where two souls meet and know each other, start accepting each other with all their flaws. Now marriage for people only means to warm the sheets and reproduce.

I have always dreamt about getting married to someone i like but its not the same with everyone from my community. Some people marry to destroy their lives to keep whole society happy. Some people even say that what's wrong with marrying a girl, you get an erection that's enough to reproduce kids and hand it over, the list hence goes on. Scenarios might be different for different people.

People get married and then they don't even realise that every human being has his own sexual desires.
Marrying a girl doesn't only spoil your life but it also spoils her life. It shows that we don't respect needs of women or we just think they don't have sexual desires. We need to remember that women too like it, need it, want it, as much as men do!

In India i have hardly seen a bi-sexual guy marrying a guy they marry girls and then they cruise around with boys. Same thing happens with gays. Loyalty is a foundation of marriage and they tarnish the roots of marriage there itself.

Most of the times gays are forced to get married to a girl because of family pressure as all they need is their son to be a MAN by rubbing his body on a female and reproducing a baby to announce around that their son can also produce kids and he isn't gay.

People think that being gay means infertile, which is a misconception and it should be cleared off. Infertility can be caused due to many reason that doesn't make someone gay same as fertility doesn't make someone straight.

Getting married to a girl even by being gay doesn't make you a Man but coming out of the cucoon and fighting for what is not wrong , to not being ashamed of and being proud of what you are makes you a real human.

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