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Condoms are easily available than a heart to heart conversation.

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Past one year has not only taught me to be proud about myself or to explore my gender identity, it has helped me to understand that unlike my friends i don't believe in having random hookups unless and until I'm not that horny that i want to sleep with someone. I was never introduced to concept of Demisexuality until last year. Demisexuality is the Gray area between Asexuality and Sexuality, where until and unless i don't form an emotional bond with someone, his chances of finding me next to him in bed is just impossible. Nowadays, in life sex is prioritise more than emotions and love, because condoms are easily available than a heart to heart conversation, gazing at stars and discussing about life and random stuff. i prefer not to go with people who believe in taking of pants easily than presenting their heart. And most of the  people wouldn't even believe that I'm a demisexual guy because I'm so open about idea of sex and sexuality and i do crazy stuff i

Do they have gender?

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Patriarchy is like flood which comes with such a tremendous flow and destroys lives. One such component in the patriarchy is 'GENDER NORM'. Gender norm has been there since ages and it has forced people to follow its terms and conditions.  Well, while growing up i also got to know that gender is assigned to clothes too. And i kept following it for a very long time,until i dint realised 'bout my gender identity. Yes! gender identity and sexual orientation are two different concepts. Being a 'gay' , 'lesbian', 'bi-sexual' tells about your sexual orientation; but gender identity is something which you decide. I identify myself as an 'Androgynous' guy. which means that i posses both qualities of a male and female. Lets come back to the clothes so ya people do assign gender to clothes. I liked heavy lehenga's, saree's, anaarkali's but i hardly liked men's clothes as all i could find is pant and shirt. I wasn't ever allowe